Understanding the wounds of a victim requires delving into the paradox of experiences.
Playing the victim card is a complex process. By delving deeper, we can realize how clinging to victimhood keeps us trapped in deep suffering.
It's valid and hurtful that the event caused you pain. However, unless we find a way to let go and forgive, we remain paralyzed in unconscious pain.
In this state, we often react with anger and fear, perpetuating the same cycles we are fighting against. The victim mentality spins us in a void, and by not resolving the traumatic experiences that make us feel like victims, we build defensive identities to shield ourselves from further harm.
Ironically, this armor of identity prevents us from truly experiencing and processing the necessary emotions for healing. It's not about blaming victims; it's an opportunity to shift our perspective from victimhood to understanding our own pain, thereby opening the door to understanding the pain of others. We can then realize that they had no conscious choice in hurting us; there are no evil intentions or malevolent spirits seeking to harm us.
Instead, it's a world that created duality as a defense mechanism to shield itself from confronting its own underlying causes.
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